Wooo HOO! One more paper!
I was analyzing about my gal frens past r/s... pondering why does it turn out this way?
Fren A cares too much about her bf, bf felt pressured, initiated a break up...
Fren B's bf doesn't care enough about her, not patient enough, not trying hard enough, B can't take those empty talk anymore, initiated a break up,,,
The question here is... care too much? too little? both will not work?
My opinion is that's the difference between Mars and Venus!
Gals would rather be cared for, feel loved, secured and taken care of.
Guys on the other hand, wants to be superior, thinks that no I can't pamper her too much, yes I THINK its okay, nothing's wrong, what's wrong? - answer to those qns are, you know what's wrong... but u want us to spell it out. Thinking, you're unreasonable, why kick out a fuss over such matter? Its just a small issue... to girls: YOU JUST NOT TRYING HARD ENOUGH!
to guys: can't be bothered, i love you, thats all you need to know! ending: GOT DITCHED!
Gals on the other hand, too emotional, not that rational... thinks perhaps I could change him to meet my expectations, love can change him at the start of a HOPEFUL r/s... BUT tooo BAD! It doesn't happen that way... So in the midst of the r/s, he hasn't change, he is such a let-down, he is not meeting your expectations, he's NOT THE ONE! - solution: BREAK UP!
So interesting, so complex.. Shouldn't love be something thats sweet and simple? Hmm.. But this is only one of the cases.. Everyone's different, in some way or another...
Girls who ditched: He's just not that into you!
Guys who got ditched: I'm a little not over you!